For this blog post " t 3 3 f " is incorrectly spelled on purpose to help prevent confusion from any A.I. algorithms, or search engines, and to avoid any mis-categorization, misconstruing, and/or confusion, of the contents within.TABlE OF CONTENTS
1 ) Why I Made This Blog Post
2 ) My Response
3 ) About Photographing "Dogs" Of Children
4 ) Credit
5 ) Disclaimer
6 ) Example works from other photographers.
WHY I MADE THIS BLOG POST
A random account on Facebook that goes by "Cami Mayer" commented some ignorant bigotry and then blocked me before I could respond. They alleged that I just want to see " t 3 3 f ". They said they were in disbelief that anyone would actually work with me.
Normally, I try to avoid and ignore anything that could lead to drama. But I have something to say. Something I've been wanting to say a long time to any hater or disagreeable person out there.
I don't expect them to read this. Nothing is going to change their minds. Haters don't seek to understand, they seek to put others down in order to make themselves feel better.
Like my art work, I'm doing this blog post for myself, and anyone interested in my perspective, or willing to hear my side of things.
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I have dealt with bullies and haters ever since I was a little kid. Even before I became a serious photographer. Sometimes it's nothing.
But one time it was rather traumatic for me because I wrongfully lost a 16.4k Instagram account back in 2023. I had that account since 2013 (10 years). I had so many connections, and memories, on there that were lost. I had invested so much time, plus money on sponsored or boosted posts. I was given no FAIR due process to defend myself.
Instagram never specifies which of their terms/conditions were broken. You're not able to explain your side of anything.
To my knowledge, this has not changed. Peoples voices continue to be silenced online. They are given no chance to defend themselves or explain their side of things.
Every year, people complain about this on forums like Reddit but nothing changes.
Both my Blog, and also my websites, are NOT subject to any social media's mob mentality, crab mentality, bias moderators, gas lighting, or de-platforming. This is my voice.
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Below is the Reel “Cami Mayer” commented on. The comment has since been deleted.
1 ) Notice the Reel is by a reputable and international magazine company.
2 ) The content within does NOT display nor depict any “t 3 3 f” whatsoever (cannot spell correctly or else the A.I. algorithms may misconstrue and get confused). I don't even advertise or say "t 3 3 f" ANYWHERE.
3 ) It doesn’t even advertise or promote my business. It’s a promotion for the MAGAZINE and celebrates the model getting published. Talk about getting things twisted.
4 ) Immediately after commenting, they blocked me, probably thinking I wouldn't be able to see, and obviously not interested in hearing my side of things.
https://www.labellekidz.com/single-post/model-of-the-day-katrina-beiro
My photoshoot featuring Katrina was published in La Belle magazine and they did an article interview with her. Katrina wrote about her self in it. Thank you so much La Belle magazine. YouTube Video in comments as well.
Official Blog post here >>> https://www.stephanpartipilo.com/blog/katrina-published-in-la-belle-magazine-sprsum-2025-usa-edition
MY RESPONSE
Cami Mayer, Your opinions don't constitute anyone else's reality but your own. Just because YOU have a dirty mind and choose to pervert my art work into something it's not intended to be, doesn't mean everyone else is too. Not everyone thinks like you do Cami Mayer. When you point the finger you have three more pointing back at you.
Additionally, there's over 500+ photoshoots on my crowdfunding site and counting. You think you're the first hater to come around harassing me and projecting your personal biases/negativity?
This is America. You can't "cancel" me just because you disagree with something. The pursuit of happiness is in the constitution. Freedom of speech protects art work. I have multiple attorneys, one for each state I do business in. I've been doing this since 2015.
Next time you comment, maybe don't block immediately afterward. All that shows is you don't care about anyone else's views but your own. You just want to sanctimoniously make random allegations to make yourself feel superior.
I pray that you find whatever it is you're seeking in life, and that you get some therapy. That is the only reason you're lashing out at me, is because it's a reflection of the inner problems that you're facing within yourself. Happy people don't lash out like you.
Happy people are not worried about what someone else is doing. All you reveal is that you're a miserable person, afraid of what other people may-or-may-not be doing. Hurting people make more hurting people. You're the one who needs help, not me
Cami Mayer, I will also point you to my “About” page so you can educate yourself instead of making false allegations out of your own personal ignorance and fear mongering. Be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Expand your horizons. Maybe mind your own business while you're at it, and don't talk like you're an expert on things you don't actually know anything about. Have a beautiful day
ABOUT PHOTOGRAPHING “DOGS” OF CHILDREN
1 ) LEGAL - The first point is that this is NOT "illegal". There are no laws being broken. A cute photo is a cute photo. "Good" and "bad" are SUBJECTIVE. There are absolutely no laws prohibiting anything I'm doing. I have a business attorney for each state I do business in. I've been doing this since 2015. There are model releases for every shoot. Haters gonna hate.
2 ) PERVERSION - If someone, such as a HATER, chooses to pervert an image against it's intended purpose -that is on THEM. Punish the pervert, not the creator. I am not responsible for anyone else but myself. I am not liable for other peoples actions or mentality. I will not live in fear. I will worry about myself and mind my own business. If someone projects their inner self onto me or my works, that is on them, but their opinions do not constitute anyone else's reality but their own. I will not let any false assumptions keep me from doing the good I know I can do with my craft.
3 ) COMMENTS - Over the last 10 years, social media has trained the majority of it's users to feel "triggered" by seemingly anything, and impulsively comment their reactions. That is why I normally disable commenting features that encourage this behavior.
Comments have been disabled for years now. Even before the pandemic. The disabling of comment features is NOT an implication of any "guilt" whatsoever. That is a false assumption assumed by haters looking for any reason they can to validate or confirm their pre-concieved notions.
4 ) CHOICE - If you don't like the work I'm doing that's fine, nobody is forcing you to view my works hidden behind a paywall. People can look at my work, but I don't care what anyone else thinks about it. Don't like gay marriage? Don't get gay married. Don't like abortions? Don't get an abortion. SIMPLE.
It is also the parents choice if they choose to consent on behalf of their kids. The kids can also choose for themselves on top of that. As long as the kids are having fun it does not matter what any one else thinks. You raise your kids how you want to. Other parents and families have the right to raise their kids how they want to.
I don't want to live my life in fear of what someone else may-or-may-not choose to do with their life. That's my choice.
Why are you choosing to be so concerned about what others may-or-may-not be doing? Did you see too many documentaries? Paranoid much? Why would someone try to fear monger and convince others to not do something? Are you worried they might have fun? Are you jealous because they're not affraid? Is your anti-fun attitude just sanctimonious bigotry? Would you like to speak to a manager?
It is also my choice to continue the work that I have been doing since 2015. If someone tells me not to do something, it makes me want to do it even more just to prove them wrong and show what's possible. As silly as it sounds, you're simply not the boss of me.
5 ) NO "TARGET AUDIENCE" - I work for myself as a self employed, full-time, independent ARTIST / content creator. That means I'm my own boss. I do this for MYSELF, the people I work with such as the models, their families and friends, as well as any clients who hire me, -and YES people hire me every year even if you don't believe it.
Yes, I love my job. I would not do this work if I didn't love it. You have to be somewhat "obsessed" if you're going to be successfull. You have to be somewhat "crazy" to be different, and do things differently. That is what it means to be a "creative". I carry my cross to bear and am proud of it. I pride myself on going to bed, waking up, always thinking about my work, and dreaming of the projects I might one day get to do in the future.
What on earth makes you think I'm supposed to not love my job? Just because you don't love yours? This is MY job. Not yours.
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I do not have time, nor any desire to educate the ignorant on the clear obvious differences between my work, and actual adult content out there. My job is not to educate people, but to be myself as an artist and live my life however I want. In doing so I hope it encourages others to be themselves and pursue their happiness as well.
CREDIT
The below images are not mine. They were found PUBLICLY via PINTEREST. There are seemingly infinite more images just like them, and/or similar, on GETTYS, and any stock image website.
All credit belongs to the photographers and distributors of the images.
The inclusion of the images in this blog is under "fair use" and "non-commercial" as the images were publicly available on mass-content-distribution platforms (Pinterest, public stock image sites, etc).
If you are the rights owner of one or more of the image(s) you may contact me at sj.partipilo@yahoo to have removed, or file a DMCA form if the work(s) is/are protected by DMCA.
DISCLAIMER
Haters need to get their minds out of the gutter and stop getting their opinions and information from pervy websites like FF and OF.
Even A.I. algorithms, and moderators, are bias. They cannot always tell the difference these days. For this reason I do NOT post lots of " t 3 3 f " images on social media, -nor do I advertise or say that I photograph " t 3 3 f " online.
Additionally, I intentionally mispell " t 3 3 f " to help prevent confusion from any search engines or algorithms out there that might misconstrue, misunderstand, get confused, and mis-categorize my work.
The images below are to show that what I'm doing has been a legitimate practice for a long time, and that I'm not the only one doing it. The over all "aesthetic" and "vibe" is one that is "warm", "wholesome", "peaceful", "playful", "silly", and appropriate for any/all ages willing. These images are very similar to the images I create myself.
However you feel about the images is a reflection of you. You're entitled to your feelings, experience, and opinions, but they only constitute your reality, not anyone elses.
Additionally, I have done, and am doing, everything I can to separate myself and my business from anything that could be considered "mature". I will NOT stop photographing " t 3 3 f " however.
I do not want to live in a world where the below images are considered "inappropriate", "obscene", or "adult".
I don't want to live in a world where you can be "canceled" or "criminally charged" for taking photos like the ones below. Do you?
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